Nadir Mothojakan

Nadir Mothojakan

Accredited BACP Counsellor & Trauma-Informed Practitioner

 When you are navigating loss, trauma, depression, or anxiety, your brain often enters "survival mode." This state can make it incredibly difficult to process complex information or make daily decisions. If you are experiencing "stuck" or prolonged grief, your body's threat system may be constantly activated—especially if your loss was sudden, violent, or traumatic.

I work with individuals navigating the heavy weight of loss and trauma, especially those who withdraw to process their pain. I prioritise your immediate safety and stability. My approach is collaborative and client-led, ensuring we focus on what is most relevant to you. Together, we will explore how your past shapes your present reactions while navigating the deep questions of identity and meaning that arise after profound loss. I offer structured, compassionate care to help you process both primary trauma and secondary losses, helping you rebuild your foundation and safely move forward.

I understand how isolating grief can be, but you no longer have to keep your pain a secret. Therapy offers a safe, judgment-free space to unpack your experiences, understand why your mind and body are reacting this way, and find practical ways to heal. I offer tailored tools designed to support your unique journey toward moving forward.

If you’ve been carrying a heavy burden on your own, you do not have to walk this path alone. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can speak openly, feel truly heard, and gain deeper insight into what you are going through. If you feel ready to take the next step, please get in touch.

Professional Development & Self-Care

To ensure the highest standard of care, I engage in regular clinical supervision and continuous professional development, using self-awareness to reflect deeply on my work.

Education, Qualifications & Training

·     Accredited Member – British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), 2023

·     M.A. in Counselling (Merit) – Goldsmiths College, University of London, 2019

o   Research on Disenfranchised Grief.

·     Awareness of Bereavement Care (Level 2) – Cruse Bereavement Care, 2015

·     M.Sc. in Health Psychology – City University, London, 2010–2012

o   Research on 'Carers’ role following Heart Surgery'.

·     Certificate in Coaching & Psychological Coaching – Centre for Coaching, 2008

·     M.Sc. in Psychology – Open University, 2000–2006.  o   Research on Grief and Drug Addiction.  

·     Post-graduate Diploma in Psychology – Open University, 1997–2000

·     Thorn Course: Diploma in 'Problem Centred Interventions for people with serious mental illness' – King's College London, University of London, 2000

·     B.A. (Hons) 2:ii – Open University, Milton Keynes, 1986–1992

·     Diploma in Counselling Skills – ILEA, Southwest London College, 1983–1986

·     Diploma in Drama Therapy – 1978–1979

Outside the therapy room, I stay grounded by reading, watching films, walking daily, and spending time with loved ones. I also volunteer at a community centre to support displaced individuals, which inspires my appreciation for the resilience of the human spirit

You are most welcome to book a free complimentary session of 30 minutes to check if we are the right fit for the therapy. Thank you.