Elena Miari

Hello, I am a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Counsellor and a member of COSRT, qualified since 2008 and working full time in private practice. I am also the founder of Heathwell Therapies, a mental health clinic in Blackheath Village. My work is centred on supporting couples, both in person in Blackheath, Southeast London (SE3), and online.

My main specialisms are in infidelity and neurodiversity within relationships, as well as communication difficulties and the challenges that come with major life transitions. Most of my clinical work is with couples navigating the combination of neurodiversity and infidelity, which often brings complexity, emotional intensity and a need for a clearer understanding of the relationship dynamic.

My approach is grounded in existential psychotherapy. Couples often respond to each other through layers of past experiences, fears and unspoken assumptions. In our sessions we slow this down so each partner can understand what is happening in themselves and in the space between you. We explore values, patterns, expectations and the deeper meanings that shape your connection. My role is active and collaborative, helping you communicate with clarity, take shared responsibility and reconnect with what matters to both of you.

When working with infidelity, my aim is to offer a clear and compassionate framework for both partners as they navigate the aftermath of such a shattering event. I help you communicate more honestly and safely and create a space where the difficult conversations can be spoken rather than avoided. The work holds both partners equally, supporting you through the emotional intensity of the experience and helping you move towards an informed decision about the future of your relationship.

When supporting neurodiverse couples, I focus on helping each partner understand the different ways they process information, express emotion and experience connection. We explore how neurodiversity shapes the relationship, where misunderstandings arise and how each partner’s needs can be met more effectively. A key part of the work involves choosing which issues are worth working through together and which ones may need a different approach. The aim is to increase awareness, reduce friction and build a more intentional and sustainable way of relating.

Some couples come because they are in crisis, others because they want to strengthen their relationship or find a healthier way to move forward. I offer ongoing work, focused short term therapy and intensive single session consultations for those seeking clarity around a specific issue.

You can find out more about me and my professional experience at www.elenamiari.co.uk

Qualifications

• Advanced Diploma In Relationship Psychotherapy - NAOS Institute
• MA in Psychosocial Studies - University of East London
• PgDip in Counselling - University of West London
• Foundation in Psychotherapy and Counselling - NSPC
• BSc Psychology - Middlesex University

Memberships

• BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy)
• COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists)
• WFADHD (World Federation for ADHD)